You know how much you love to log into the recently launched Facebook, Twitter or Google+ to share information or update your status. Whatever way you like to use your social media platforms, it is important to learn the social characteristics of social media, which has become an integral part of our lives. Many people think that they can do whatever they like with their social media accounts. It’s not uncommon to hear someone say, “It’s my account, and I can use it as I see fit.”

This may be true to some extent but it is essential to understand that it is a social network in the sense that you are not using it alone. You have to be considerate of others, because online communication lacks the tone and body language that usually helps organize a face-to-face interaction. Social media guidelines are not set in stone, but they are generally agreed upon for better social media interaction. It also cannot be exhausted here, as there are many social platforms used differently. Here are some common items that may apply to frequently used social media.

Think before you post

When you are in doubt whether or not to share something online, it is best not to share it. The internet really doesn’t have a delete button. In fact, the general rule is – if you don’t say it in a casual conversation, don’t say it on social media, but be careful about what you say or share. You never know who is seeing it and how it might affect them. Also if you are commenting or replying to something someone has posted, make sure that your comments are meaningful and respectful, and that there is no spam (irrelevant or inappropriate messages sent over the Internet to a large number of recipients), off-topic or offensive remarks.

In addition, avoid responding to or initiating inflammatory messages. If you really feel the need to respond to someone, don’t do it right away. Give yourself time to think and come up with an appropriate and objective response. In fact, it is best to send a private message, especially if your answer is negative.

Avoid giving TMI (too much information)

Someone once said disparagingly that there is a fine line between “I should tweet about that” and “I should talk to my therapist about that.” How often have you or someone you know posted information that you consider very personal on Facebook or Twitter? Refrain from sharing like this on social media. Private conversations should also be excluded. Use your inbox, email, or private chat if you have to share information that isn’t in everyone’s eyes. Keep venting frustration to a minimum. Nobody likes a moaner

At the same time, do not put too much information on your profile. Avoid giving out details about where you live or about your children if you have any, among their personal information, for your own safety. The Internet is not private.

the pictures

No one is really interested in seeing a picture of you drunk and passed out at a party. Avoid posting pictures of yourself in misleading situations, or suggestive pictures of anything others might consider offensive. It paints you in a negative light. Also, don’t post photos or tag people in photos without their permission, especially if they aren’t close friends. In terms of photos, it’s always a good idea to have a photo of yourself on your profile as people like to know who they interact with online. Most people don’t like talking to cartoons or company logos.

Avoid script speech

Do you get upset when someone writes “Cn wi tlk l8r n 2de?” Marking the space on social media platforms is not popular enough to warrant someone writing this way. Communicate clearly and in a way that can be understood.

It’s not all about you.

People get tired of people constantly talking about themselves. Social media is for social networking. Interact with people. Start conversations, share information and comment on information shared by others. People are willing to listen and interact with those who do the same.